Like a father to a child you can see some of the father's ways in the child, some good some bad. No matter how many times the father says do as I say not as I do, the child learns from the father's ways. God does not want to ruin your life. He wants to make it better. {For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. Isaiah 55:8-9}
God never fussed or cussed, pouted or belittled us. He loves us but not because of what we do. He loves us because he created us. Only God has the right to say, 'after all I've done this is how you treat me?'. We, in our selfishness, treat each other like everyone owes us and we owe no one. This is not God's way. Let's not forget we will all stand before God someday. Will he say to you well done my good and faithful servant or depart from me I never knew you. Choose life, choose love, choose God's way, choose Jesus cause our way is the highway to hell.